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Communicating with Compassion
Communicating with Compassion: A Low Demand and Declarative Language Guide for Parents and Carers
by Bobbi Cook (Author)
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If you’ve ever felt like every request turns into a battle, or that no matter how much you try, your child seems overwhelmed and resistant, you’re not alone. Communicating with Compassion is a practical, easy-to-read guide designed for parents and carers of young people who experience demand avoidant behaviours—whether due to Autism, PDA, ADHD, trauma, anxiety, or just general overwhelm.
This is not a technical textbook filled with jargon. It’s a conversation about how and why low-demand and declarative language works, with step-by-step guidance to help you put it into practice in your own home. You’ll find real-life examples, quick-read sections, and do-now strategies that can help reduce pushback, ease daily struggles, and foster more connection and calm.
To make learning easier, each chapter begins with a glossary of key terms, breaking down common phrases and buzzwords that professionals use—so you won’t feel left out of the conversation. This book is designed to be practical, accessible, and reassuring, no matter where you are in your parenting or caregiving journey.
If you’re experiencing overwhelm, burnout, or constant resistance, this book will help you shift the way you communicate—leading to fewer battles, more cooperation, and a deeper understanding of your child’s needs.
A must-read for any parent or carer looking for real, effective strategies to support a neurodivergent child with compassion and confidence.
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